Monday, December 28, 2009
Politikin with the G-Man: Nightline This is Why
G-Man's Statement: "I saw this clip from ABC News and it disgusted me. Yet another news piece on black women, specifically high achieving black women, being unable to find mates and how this is all the fault of black men. Why do these segments constantly put ALL the onus on black men and ignore that the interviewees are FUCKIN CRAZY?!?!?
One of the women said she JUST recently changed a REQUIREMENT that a man be 6'5" or above. ARE YOU FUCKIN SERIOUS?! Then another said she used to have a 50 requirement list. WTF? I struggle to list 7 prerequisites for a desirable woman!
1)Honest
2)Trustworthy
3)Intelligent
4)Physically Attractive
5)Well Rounded Personality (can be funny, laidback, outgoing, assertive, etc. whenever appropriate)
6)Reasonable (willing to compromise)
7)Financially/Professionally Stable
Those are seven dealbreakers for me right there. To me, if you can find a mate with those qualities that loves you as much as you love them, you should be ecstatic and hold on to them for as long as possible. What the fuck else is there? You're gonna turn down someone with all those qualities because they're 6'1"? Word????
If people are REALLY interested in coming up with solutions for the problem of the deteriorating black family, they'd be EVEN with criticism and address black men AND women. But AGAIN, no one called out these women for their ridiculousness and what THEY were doing to prevent themselves from finding happiness. If only black male problems are focused on, nothing will ever change."